
The trick is to get her to associate the brush with good things.
My pup also kicked up a huge fuss over being brushed or having his nails clipped, but with perseverence he will now lay quietly while his nails are cut & will tollerate short grooming seesions.
This is how I managed.
1st of it's best done while the dog is quite (not wound up from playing). My pup has learnt to 'wait' for anything, eg. he will sit/lay quietly & 'wait' for the next command, so I would put some treats on my lap, get him to lay & 'wait' while I brushed him, making sure it was 1 quick stroke that he didn't get a chance to react to, I did this for a few times and then stopped before he was too wound up (or he would try to eat the brush!!). I repeated this at any opportunity, eg, whenever he wanted something. As he is very food-motivated I did this before each meal.
Patience is key, she will learn, but pups see most things as a game. It would be worth getting you pup used to the sight of the brush first, by having it in sight/letting her smell it whenever she is doing something she likes.