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By Donnax (***) [gb] Date 02.03.09 11:03 GMT
Its been 3 long years since you left for the bridge.
I miss you much... Life isnt the same and never will be.
I know i have moved on in some ways but other ways im stuck wondering if it was the right decision that day...
I do know that where ever you are now you'll be resting and have murphy by your side
Rest well warlie boy, i love you much

Love always
Mom xxxx
Charlie... 2/3/06 Murphy 7/11/07 R.i.p my boys xxx
Keep your chin up, its murphys law x
By newf3 (****) [gb] Date 02.03.09 21:28 GMT
my thoghts are with you Donnax on this sad day.
God bless you both.
xxxx
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By Crespin (****) [ca] Date 03.03.09 01:47 GMT
((((hugs)))))  Thinking of you during this time.
This is the last time I will allow you to take a breath from my lungs to fill your own.
By HuskyGal (*****) [gb] Date 03.03.09 21:59 GMT
Hi Donna,

I can't believe it's been 3 years...
Warm Hugs winging their way to you Love, thinking of you as I know how hard his passing hit you... but Sweatheart, enough, dont keep beating yourself up, its a horrible descision we have to take sometimes but its rarely the wrong decision xxxxxx
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By Donnax (***) [gb] Date 04.03.09 10:54 GMT
Thank you all xx
Husky gal.. It did hit me hard after all he had been through.. he done so well on chemo etc and then i took the choice to end his fight.. But i know deep deep down somewhere inside me that it was really for the best.
I spent charlie's day off work... (they all know its charlie time) and spent it with daisy (my gorgeous grandaughter) then i took paddy on charlies favourite walk...

Time will eventually heal.. wont it?

Donna xxxx
Charlie... 2/3/06 Murphy 7/11/07 R.i.p my boys xxx
Keep your chin up, its murphys law x
By Perry (***) [gb] Date 05.03.09 16:26 GMT
Donna, it does get easier in time but Charlie will be in your heart forever, he was a very special boy, run free at the bridge Charlie x
By so sad (*) [gb] Date 08.03.09 09:01 GMT
Thinking of you Donna.  What a lovely idea to have a Charlie day xx
By Donnax (***) [gb] Date 09.03.09 18:14 GMT
thank you xx
Charlie... 2/3/06 Murphy 7/11/07 R.i.p my boys xxx
Keep your chin up, its murphys law x
By Julie (**) [gb] Date 15.03.09 23:14 GMT
Hi Donna

Sorry I missed "Charlie Day", been a little tied up with the terrible twosome.  I does get easier, I still miss Fagin soooooooo much but I knew it was time to open my heart again and move on.  I'm having that dilema at the moment with my cat do I do it now and wonder if I did it too soon or do I wait and find I've left it too long.  If you thought the time was right then it most probably was, you knew him better than anyone else. 

RIP Charlie

Love Julie
By Donnax (***) [gb] Date 18.03.09 21:20 GMT
Aw thanks for popping by Julie..
Yep, its always difficult and knowing what to do for the best.
I know i did the right thing, but as soon as i dont feel guilty anymore.. i start questioning myself and start the cycle all over again

Hope things are going well with the twosome.. drop me an email let me know how its going

Here's to charlie and fagin (and murphy who will be trailing behind somewhere :-) )

Love Donna xxx
Charlie... 2/3/06 Murphy 7/11/07 R.i.p my boys xxx
Keep your chin up, its murphys law x
By poppity (***) [gb] Date 29.03.09 16:11 GMT
hello donnax,i'm new to this site and don't know the story of charlie but i understand that you are still in a lot of pain over the decision you had to make to end his suffering.you helped him when he needed you most,he couldn't help himself so it was up to you to have the courage to step in and you did.charlie would thank you for it and he would wonder why you are upset about it,after all you stopped his pain.you loved and cared for him and still do but it's not fair on his memory to hang on to negayive feelings.how can he be happy in his new life if he thinks you are feeling guilty over his passing.for me and our beloved buster it is the opposite thing.how i've wished we didn't keep him here when he was deaf and blind and unable to walk.he was 19years old when he died in november of 2005 and he'd always been very active.by some mad misguided feelings we thought that it would be disloyal to help him onto the next part of his adventure.how wrong we were,he deserved better and it took a long time to come to terms with that.i realise that he loved us enough to forgive us.God bless him.our other dog bonnie died 3weeks later at 10years,we thought the pain would be the end of us but we got through it.after my partner died in december 2007 after 34 years and 3 children together my children were so worried about me and i agreed that i would look for another dog.that's how the lovely poppy came into my life.if i have to make the choice at the end then i must and will because i love her.good luck to you and yoursx
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