Lindsay,
You are soooo right, it really is a help just to have replies from you guys. Being so ignorant in dog matters, it is easy to have the crisis of confidence. This board goes a very long way to countering that.
Leigh,
yes I can make eye contact, Gem holds it, though I haven't tried pushing it to see who drops first.
Although all the people were looking at her, I am sure they were NOT staring.
I useually give her the bone again. She doesn't turn a hair when I move her food bowl, though I always tell her to leave and she always gets the food again straight away.
John,
1st time was in the first few days, we had stoppedon the street and 2 neighbours came to see Gem. The lass came over and reached over Gem's head to stroke her.
2. I took her bone from her, told her off for snapping. Waited a couple of minutes then gave her the bone again, she took it nicely. No problem taking bone or toys since.
3. Vet's assisant was feeding her treats whilst sat on the floor at Gem's level. The vet looked in her ears OK, Gem was not happy about her looking at her eyes. When the Vet tried to examine her stomach, she snapped. ( there was a scratch on her stomach).
4. Stormy day, (labs were a bit skittish), my wife walked Gem past the pub, Gem was a bit skittish about a blackbord! The landlady, who had stroked Gem a week or so earlier, came over to do again and Gem snapped.
then 3 or so weeks with no problem....
5. Out walking& girl asked to see gem. I sat her down & the girl came over, quite quickly, hand out to stroke her, ( again over Gem's head).
6. out on the street again, Dom who has seen her and stoked her many times, came over. I put Gem in the down, he crouched a bit and offered the back of his hand to her and she snapped at him.
When I told her NO, there was a short quiet growl whilst looking at me.
I have moved her bowl around, mid feed, telling her to leave. No problems at all.
I have taken her bone and toy from her, again telling her 'dead', no problem. She 'noses' the bone / toy but doesn't try taking it.
I have examined her eyes, ears and teeth (not making her open her mouth), all no problem.
Having taken her bone I left my hand right next to her mouth, no hint of anything.
I don't know how connected this is, but when I got her she would go very submissive and frequently wet when approached. She no longer does this at all.
She would be at the end of the lead, inch or so off the ground, scrabbling forward. She now is pretty good almost all the time on a lead. ( in fact this mornings walk didn't have a single tight lead). Although she does not like walking at my side, always wants to be in front.
Sometimes if I walk past her as she goes to the toilet, she doesn't finish but rushes on and goes again later.
I f we leave her in her run she 'winges', although if we leave her on a running lead she seems OK.
If we let her have a bone or toy in her run, she barks at it from time to time and tosses it all over the place.
We always feed her in her run. She sits and waits, (when told !), for her food, till told to take it.
She is quick to learn. She now knows sit, down and come, (all voice & whistle),
'gently' means she runs on extended lead without pulling,
'this way' means turn,
NO, wait, off,
she knows she isn't allowed in the house, (although if I am inside she comes looking for me !!),
dead to give up what's in her mouth,
'take it' for food, bone , treat etc.
close (although she won't walk at my side).
Leave is new but she seems to be getting the hang of it.
She is learning 'get it' for play and fetch for work.
Altough she knows all this, she doesn't always do it first time. ( in fairness it's usually because there is a distraction.)
When we got together she knew : sit, stay, down (ish), and wait. She expected a treat for each.
I have discovered that on at least one occasion in her previous home, she was hit with a newspaper when caught chewing something that she shouldn't have.
Both previous owners were women and the first has at least 2 children, ( I don't know ages).
First owner 'often' buys puppies and gets rid at about 6 or 7 months!
I don't have any info on the breeder.
That's about all I can think of to tell you, unless you can think of something I missed. !!!

Oh!, and she will be the best gundog around, if only her owner can get 'it' sorted !!!!
Thanks all for your time and patience.
Alan