Hi Lynne.
Welcome to the board

I think that it is quite natural for bitches to
boss dogs around. My GSD bitch used to rule the males in my household with a rod of steal,
woe betide them if they stepped out of line. As Tyson is now in advanced years, I would intervene and get her to leave him alone if he appears to be upset by the attention. If he is ok, then let them get on with it.
Leigh